We wanted another dog for a while but waited until the time
was right for us. For everyone that is different for us it was because we had more
time available to spend with another dog. Flo was 9 and pretty much not
bothered about other dogs, never really liked playing or socialising. She was
never aggressive just not bothered. I think it’s important to get a dog or
another dog because you want to share your life with that dog, this means
committing time to the dog (if you want it to be happy and well behaved anyway)
and in my opinion it’s not generally a good idea to get another dog whose main purpose
is to be a friend to your other dog. It will be nice when they do get on but a
dog that only interacts with other/another dog will generally only listen to
that other dog. So quality time available to spend with new dog, check!!
We looked at some dogs on Sunderland Animal Adoption website
for months, one caught our eye called Baily and we said we would phone when we
got back off holiday and sure enough he was gone. A Dogue de Bordeaux had always
been on our radar and we contacted the DDB welfare who just so had a Dogue
coming into the kennels that needing rehoming that week. The DDB Welfare (Bev
our contact) were excellent and so thorough, home check, meet Flo lots of
questions all great. I went to see him
with my son Alex as soon as he got there we liked the look of him despite
having no tail and being about 2st underweight. Next day we took our dog Flo up
to meet him. They had a walk and a mooch and thankfully again no problems so we
went ahead with the adoption.
It’s hard to remember back now but at the time it was very
exciting but quite scary. It was pissing down the night I brought him home. I
wanted to take him for a long walk before I took him in the house so did that
then washed him down out the back. We must have both looked like big drowned
ginger rats when we eventually got in. Beth was a bit freaked out (as was I if
I’m honest) the kids were excited but wary and Flo basically acted like a cat
and spat at him every time he even looked at her (she settled after a month or
two) Poor Barry god knows what he was thinking about the whole thing. They sure
are big dogs when you are only used to smaller ones and that takes some getting
used too. When he finally settled and lay down we could all take a deep breath,
sit down (with a whisky in my hand) and look forward to our lives together.
Barry as he became known, his name picked by Beth as they
always are (I’m sure she just wanted me running around the park shouting ‘Baaarryy’!)
settled in quite quickly, we had him neutered straight away (he was 18months
anyway) I slept downstairs the first week to help him settle in, a diet of Royal
Canin and Tripe meant he put on 2 stone in two months and was up to fighting weight.
His tail never grew back and he lost a big tooth the first week (where’s that warranty
at!) We attended some socialisation/training classes and slowly he became the
dog he is today. He was quite high energy for Bordeaux and as I have since discovered
in my business some dogs that have been severely under exercised can take
months to get rid of the pent up energy that has built up and eventually find a
level that they are happy with. We walked, ran, biked, I bought him a backpack
for him that he loves wearing. We used to walk to the butchers and he would
carry the meat home in his backpack. He loves his food his family, his walks,
his bed, his van, his Land Rover (which we sold and neither Barry nor Beth have
forgiven me!) It has been some journey with the odd down to counter the many
ups and there is too much to tell in one blog. I really think the skills and knowledge I
learned when we got Barry were a big factor behind me starting my own business
Pack Leader Dog Adventures.
One quote which stays with me always is from Bev at DDB
welfare who said this to me on the day they got him in. I always try to
remember this when I am dealing with dogs, including my own ‘He is not the
perfect dog but he could be’ How right she was.
Barry even has his own facebook page now Everybody loves Barry
Barry even has his own facebook page now Everybody loves Barry